During this holiday season, when there is so much going on that even vivacious people may sometimes anticipate the calm break in January, it is very simple to forget details. I'm sure I cannot be the only one who's once felt surprised awake at work by a message from someone wondering, "What time do you want over later?" Don't worry; if you are distracted, or simply likely to make impromptu gatherings, I've got you covered.
Above all, and I cannot emphasize this sufficiently, if you've been planning for months or only 15 minutes, the best events tend to be the most straightforward. What anyone is hoping for are engaging talks, something to enjoy, and sufficient to eat that guests do not end up chewing an arm off during the bus home. If you're not you're Jay Gatsby, no one anticipates a full bar, gourmet catering or musical performances.
The best parties tend to be the most basic. Still, a concept is useful to cover up the fact you have only thrown the event together while coming after a long day.
That said, a theme works well for disguising that you've just put the party together on the way from the office. And with a theme, I mean for example a seasonal celebration. Going slightly more detailed (Scandinavian Christmas, say, with spiced drink, warm beverage, smoked fish and flatbreads, folk tunes selection; alternatively Mexican Christmas, including ponche navideño, refreshing lagers and tequila drinks, and plenty of snacks, tomato dip & green spread, and Luis Miguel in the background) can narrow your choices on the upcoming grocery run.
In the store, select a drink or two (an alcoholic option if you drink, one not for some avoid alcohol) and a couple of snacks that match the style, and buy a generous amount within your budget, instead of worrying about giving people a wide selection. No thing looks more welcoming and as festive as abundance – I would consistently rather to be welcomed by a tub filled with chilled bottles of reasonably priced crémant or cava over a single glass of fancy bubbly. (Include a few bags for chilling, as well; you'll find never sufficient ice.)
Should you impress and offer a mixed drink, make sure to mix in advance a sizable amount in a jug so you're not stuck faffing around with preparation while you should be having fun. After starting, enlist a close friend or helper to monitor the drinks then refill when needed until it's finished. Apply the same with the non-alcoholic punch; people enjoy to be given a task during gatherings so they can share in the positive vibes.
For large-batch drinks, whichever recipe you choose (there are many via search), avoid anything excessively sweet – children there need their own drinks – and should you own one, place a bottle of bitters close by (avoid adding them into the punch as they're not suitable for people who avoid drinks entirely). Make an effort with presentation so that the alcohol-free drink isn't perceived neglected; it doesn't take a minute to cut a few rounds of citrus to the punch.
Personally, I would avoid the store-bought assortments of "party foods" available in supermarkets during the holidays; they feel fussy, and often require heating things up (if you choose to opt for these, be aware that everyone secretly favors toasted bread or cocktail sausages regardless). It's my firm opinion nothing beats several really big bowls with good-quality crisps (simple is universally liked), and, provided there are no issues, some of those great-value packets of nuts often sold in the South Asian section of supermarkets, with perhaps a few pitted olives as a garnish (you don't want to still be finding pits around the house months later).
In case, like my mum, you think chips proper food, a single sizeable chunk of good cheese on a board with crackers and some elegantly arranged grapes always looks artistic. A serving dish featuring salted or prepared salami or salmon laid out there (a single variety, except if you have a large budget), alternatively a handsome store-bought tart, similar to that pop up at delis seasonally, is even more satisfying, while you truly won't fail with rustic slices of Italian bread, since they don't need spreading butter.
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